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The Age of Disposable Relationships

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Someone asked a gentleman who had completed sixty-five years of marriage: - What is the secret of it? - And the lord said: - My son, we are born into a time when things broke, they taught us to fix them. In our day, is not only the marriage has become disposable. Many different things in these modern times have become expendable.  Unconsciously, the man of today, so dispose of plates and glasses, shoes and scarves, expanded these routine acts in interpersonal relationships. Compressed by the urgent demand of global life, humans forgot that values ​​do not toss out that friends are not plastic and the marriage is not paper.  We need to understand that it is not worth repairing a shoe, according to the ease of getting another brand new without paying much for him, love, esteem, respect and consideration are values ​​that should not be discarded. Worth a lot, yes, sorry, caring relationships, maintaining friendships and valuing family ties.  We understand that f...

Who washes the dishes or garbage strip?

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In Galatians 6:10 Paul says, "let us do good to everyone, but especially to the family of faith." Our good deeds should reach all people, Christians or not. We should follow the example of our Heavenly Father who "makes his sun rise on good and bad, and sends rain on the just and unjust."  Notwithstanding the statement of Paul is a priority of responsibility: after the first believers and unbelievers. I think we can draw from this order, a priority similar regarding our families. We should do good to all men, but mostly of our family. Paul told Timothy: "If anyone does not care for her and especially to his own house, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever" (1 Timothy 5:8). Good works should begin at home. If we go out to do good works while the other "forgotten" the needs of the wife, spouse, daughter, grandson, mother, father, father-in-law ..... we are not exercising the grace of goodness or good works.   A...

Everything is a matter of trust.

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"Would you buy a used car from this man?   In the United States is very common to that question, referring to the reliability of an acquaintance or even someone who has never seen before. Trusting someone who sometimes is pure intuition, do not always have concrete evidence or sufficient knowledge of the history of someone with whom we are about to close a deal, but we take into account what he gives us in contact. "Lies have short legs" is a popular saying in Brazil. A dishonest person is through the small details, if we realize. The obvious is only obvious to the eye ready. Also, if someone is dishonest rather betray the trust of others and there is barely a second time with the same person. The effectiveness of the lie has short-term, while the best relationships and the best deals are those that grow in the long term. This principle is the basic interpersonal communication and makes communication between businesses, between ...